Hatred is not good. I keep telling myself to love more every day and to forgive as much as possible, even forgiving those who don't deserve it. However, there's this one hatred that I will never let go if that person does not change (or should I say, those people).
No, we are not obliged to help you like that, but my mom still did. What does she get in return? Nothing. Yet, those people do not even have the intention of thanking her sincerely. Yet, those people do not even have the intention of just talking to her. Taking someone for granted is the worst thing ever in any relationship. Outsiders don't know what's happening and think those people are all fine and all. No one ever thought of the ones who helped them all these years, because obviously they don't know anything about family-related things, but those people never say anything anyway.
I can't even talk to my friends about it because they just won't understand since they aren't the ones dealing with it. They can blame my mom for being naive and too generous, but they don't understand my position. I can't blame my mom, but I can't help her either. That frustration is burning in me. They just don't understand it. And who wants to listen to my crap anyway? Everyone is busy with their own life, and their own problems. There aren't many people out there who will listen to your problems wholeheartedly.
I know that feeling when you're talking about a serious problem with a close friend and that person only answer with "maybe [...] , maybe [...], don't worry :)" And those kinds of answer just prove that that person just wanted you to get over your problem a.s.a.p so he/she won't be bothered. That person is not interested in any of your crap. That's why every time a friend talks to me about his/her problem, I try my best to say the most comforting, useful, logical words (although it often doesn't work out nicely since I really suck at expressing myself).
But you know, human beings are selfish. It's a basic human nature. We only think of ourself. We are our top priority. If there's anyone we should blame, is the devil. The devil inside each individual who turns people into selfish, self-centered human beings.
Still, I cannot forgive those people just yet. This post is getting too lengthy, and I've been popping out different issues here and there.
Anyway, all I wanted to say was;
Anyone who hurts my mother is unforgivable, even if it's a member in our family.
Friday, October 12, 2012
Hatred
Hatred is not good. I keep telling myself to love more every day and to forgive as much as possible, even forgiving those who don't deserve it. However, there's this one hatred that I will never let go if that person does not change (or should I say, those people).
No, we are not obliged to help you like that, but my mom still did. What does she get in return? Nothing. Yet, those people do not even have the intention of thanking her sincerely. Yet, those people do not even have the intention of just talking to her. Taking someone for granted is the worst thing ever in any relationship. Outsiders don't know what's happening and think those people are all fine and all. No one ever thought of the ones who helped them all these years, because obviously they don't know anything about family-related things, but those people never say anything anyway.
I can't even talk to my friends about it because they just won't understand since they aren't the ones dealing with it. They can blame my mom for being naive and too generous, but they don't understand my position. I can't blame my mom, but I can't help her either. That frustration is burning in me. They just don't understand it. And who wants to listen to my crap anyway? Everyone is busy with their own life, and their own problems. There aren't many people out there who will listen to your problems wholeheartedly.
I know that feeling when you're talking about a serious problem with a close friend and that person only answer with "maybe [...] , maybe [...], don't worry :)" And those kinds of answer just prove that that person just wanted you to get over your problem a.s.a.p so he/she won't be bothered. That person is not interested in any of your crap. That's why every time a friend talks to me about his/her problem, I try my best to say the most comforting, useful, logical words (although it often doesn't work out nicely since I really suck at expressing myself).
But you know, human beings are selfish. It's a basic human nature. We only think of ourself. We are our top priority. If there's anyone we should blame, is the devil. The devil inside each individual who turns people into selfish, self-centered human beings.
Still, I cannot forgive those people just yet. This post is getting too lengthy, and I've been popping out different issues here and there.
Anyway, all I wanted to say was;
Anyone who hurts my mother is unforgivable, even if it's a member in our family.
No, we are not obliged to help you like that, but my mom still did. What does she get in return? Nothing. Yet, those people do not even have the intention of thanking her sincerely. Yet, those people do not even have the intention of just talking to her. Taking someone for granted is the worst thing ever in any relationship. Outsiders don't know what's happening and think those people are all fine and all. No one ever thought of the ones who helped them all these years, because obviously they don't know anything about family-related things, but those people never say anything anyway.
I can't even talk to my friends about it because they just won't understand since they aren't the ones dealing with it. They can blame my mom for being naive and too generous, but they don't understand my position. I can't blame my mom, but I can't help her either. That frustration is burning in me. They just don't understand it. And who wants to listen to my crap anyway? Everyone is busy with their own life, and their own problems. There aren't many people out there who will listen to your problems wholeheartedly.
I know that feeling when you're talking about a serious problem with a close friend and that person only answer with "maybe [...] , maybe [...], don't worry :)" And those kinds of answer just prove that that person just wanted you to get over your problem a.s.a.p so he/she won't be bothered. That person is not interested in any of your crap. That's why every time a friend talks to me about his/her problem, I try my best to say the most comforting, useful, logical words (although it often doesn't work out nicely since I really suck at expressing myself).
But you know, human beings are selfish. It's a basic human nature. We only think of ourself. We are our top priority. If there's anyone we should blame, is the devil. The devil inside each individual who turns people into selfish, self-centered human beings.
Still, I cannot forgive those people just yet. This post is getting too lengthy, and I've been popping out different issues here and there.
Anyway, all I wanted to say was;
Anyone who hurts my mother is unforgivable, even if it's a member in our family.
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